why i'm here

Help You Grow Through What You Go Through

I'm here for you...

 to listen, to guide, to give perspective, to use my experience and expertise to help you reach your goals.

Whatever relationship challenge you are facing, I want you to know I am here to help. I am here to work alongside you to cultivate the relationship you desire.

My Story

Hi I’m Vance!

Like you, I found myself at the start of a relationship journey. There I was, starting over, just my son and I determined to heal and find harmony in a new space.

I then understood how challenging moving on feels. As things progressed, I began to understand that embracing the next chapter of my life required me to advance through a growth process. I came to understand that my journey and process were uniquely my own.

Likewise, I will accompany you through your own journey of growth. Using a combination of research, established steps and creative techniques; I will help you understand your current needs, biases, and patterns. Then we’ll determine the roadmap to your desired outcome. And we will go at your own pace, tailored to your personality and circumstances.

This means this process is uniquely yours, not other people’s solutions molded on you with the hope it might help!

Together, we’ll identify your goals, map out detailed steps and then work on each one until we reach a solution that enables you to advance. Your goals and when you reach them are unique to you. Seeing you become a healthier, more balanced, and more fulfilled person is my mission.

That’s the meaning of Advance to Grow.


Founder of adVance to Grow

My vision

To help men and women experience the joy of being in healthy, balanced and fulfilling relationships

By Helping You
  • Overcome fears and insecurities associated with dating and committed relationships.
  • Heal and move forward from separation and divorce.
  • Deepen, reconnect or add passion to an existing relationship.
  • Move past mental blocks associated with a previous relationship.
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1-on-1 Coaching

Personal, Practical, Powerful

My personal coaching programs are a great option for those who want answers and someone to walk with them personally. I offer one-on-one coaching that is private, focused on the right solutions and timing for you, and flexible to help you achieve your goals. 

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Speaking Engagements

Online and In Person

Whether your event requires a keynote presentation, panel participation, interview or workshop, my work provides a relatable, trustworthy and compassionate voice that resonates deeply with your audience.

My timely presentations are packed with insightful content, audience participation and practical steps that lead to transformation for your attendees.

To learn more about booking with me, please click the link for more information.

Vance's energy is contagious. That is what you call impactful. He's a natural at coaching. We invited him to speak at our SheEvolved Women's Conference.

LeNora Harrison
Ready to strengthen your journey?
move forward to a more deeply fulfilling love life

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